How to become balanced in life?

We say GOD is omnipresent which means GOD is All That Is and All That Is comprises mainly of the three states which is both the polarities, which we call it negative and positive and the third state is the one in between which is a balanced state, the center.

The negative or positive can be labelled as whatever one may perceive as per their perceptions which are in turn generated through their individual experiences and belief systems based on the experiences through the five senses of the body. It is only due to these polarities or duality through which the existence exists and the conceptual Infinite knowledge is experienced taking creativity to Infinite level with each experience.

Without the presence of negative, the positive is also non-existent and void will prevail because to say that something is positive, a reference point of a negative is taken as a reference point and in absence of which positivity does not exist too. Say for example, you feel that you are a good person. By saying so, you must have taken a reference point of a person about who you feel is bad person. Now, if you did not have anyone's reference point of being bad, what would you say about yourself as what you are? You will not be able to define yourself in absence of the opposite. Correct? Then you will come to a conclusion that you just are because you do not have a reference point of the opposite.

Just the same way everything is "JUST IS" and everyone is "JUST IS". This is being non-judgemental, being in the center, being balanced in life and accepting everything and everyone as "IT IS" and not expecting the other to change as per your perception as everyone is an expression of GOD Itself and everyone has a free will and a right to express themselves. If the other is right then it does not mean that you are wrong. Both are correct as per their own perspective but a balance has to be achieved between both the parties and attain peace by being in the center, just as in the picture below.

So in essence, all what we see, experience and label it as good and bad is GOD Itself. Hence all the do's and don't's mentioned in the scriptures are GOD Itself and if GOD restricts certain doings as dont's then It is restricting Itself to experience Its own Infinite knowledge through existence which is impossible. The belief systems are generated by means of these do's and dont's and any belief system becomes a finite system with boundaries limiting itself. If GOD is Infinite and omnipresent, then where is the question of do's and dont's or belief systems in any way? It is contradictory to the GOD being omnipresent.

Hence, we would like to say, everything is GOD and to know and feel that, one has to be non-judgemental by not labeling any experience of anyone, who is GOD Itself, and observe it as an experience that person is experiencing in which GOD is expressing and experiencing Itself through diversity.

Everything is energy and vibrating with a certain frequency and what one wants to experience vibrates at a particular frequency and always attract similar frequency bearing people and events in their own life to experience.This means, a victim and a victimiser are vibrating at same frequency as both wants to complete an experience together as experiencing anything in life, a medium of duality is required, which means there has to be two to tango. Moreover as everyone is vibrating at their own particular frequency, they will meet people having similar frequency, who together will create similar frequency events and experiences which makes sure of what goes around, comes around or you reap as you sow. You must just watch with awareness as to at which vibratory frequency you are vibrating at and you will meet the same circumstances. You should not worry about what the other's vibratory frequency is as they are going to meet the same fate as their corresponding frequency. It is like a boomerang, once it is flinged in the air by the person, it comes back to them.

The art of living is to stay in the center of polarities whilst acknowledging both the polarities and not to swing like a pendulum from one end of polarity to the other or do not be imbalanced on a see-saw of opposite polarities, good and bad, taking you on an up and down ride in life.

Be in the middle, be balanced in the center of your being.

Being balanced also does not mean if anyone is doing injustice to you then you must just be an observer and a sufferer of the same. You have to protect yourself from it otherwise if you will allow the injustice happening to you then the person who is causing injustice is going to take you for granted and carry on doing the same injustice to you as you are allowing that person to cause injustice to you. This can also lead to the feeling in that person to cause injustice to others as well as the injustice was not faced in a balanced manner of opposing it. So with every injustice done to you has to be opposed in a balanced manner from your end in order to balance the whole situation or an event in which both parties or multi-parties are involved. Balancing is the key to a blissful life and this can be achieved if you are balanced yourself.

We would say, be a non-judgemental witness to All That Is just like you are watching a movie and see the GOD in you and everyone and you will attain Pinnacle of Oneness with All That Is and become Unconditional Love yourself by transcending duality because everyone and everything is GOD Itself including you and are not separate from anything or any being.

Even to say that I Love GOD is an admittance of duality. You are That.

Only love, always.